I just noticed it, and if you want to have someone with a lot of skin showing might I suggest this avatar? No bling, but it's more tasteful than what appears to be a dude in a speedo. No one want's to see a dude's junk in their face like that.
While it's possible that the pic is of a chick, the hands look a bit rough. The contrast isn't doing it any favors. Also with the creative drag queen community these days you're forced to doubt.